Many families today are working hard to support children who are struggling emotionally, behaviourally or developmentally. Parents often receive excellent guidance from teachers, friends and therapists, but translating those recommendations into everyday life at home can feel overwhelming.
Jennifer works directly with families to bridge that gap. Drawing on more than 26 years of experience supporting families around the world, she helps parents understand their child’s needs and build practical routines, communication systems and family environments that work better for everyone.
Practical Help Is At Hand
Our Services
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Access our highly supportive, discreet service designed to help you address a wide range of parenting challenges. Through personalised, expert advice and ongoing support, we empower families to optimise those tricky childhood years. We combine compassionate listening, with structured strategies built on respect, responsiveness and boundaries. Have the freedom to seek guidance on a very broad range of topics, including:
Social and Emotional Development
Early Years Education
Academic Engagement
Gifted Learners
ADHD support
Healthy Boundaries
Transitions (moving school or country)
Life Skills
Sibling Relationships
Routines
Behaviour Challenges
Weaning & Toilet Training
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A home observation or intervention from an experienced parenting consultant provides practical, personalised support where family life actually happens. Instead of relying on general advice, the consultant can understand your child and family dynamics within the real environment where routines, behaviours, and challenges occur.
1. Support in Your Child’s Natural Environment
Observing children at home allows the consultant to see how they behave in familiar surroundings. This gives a clearer picture of routines, triggers, and interactions than can be captured in a clinic or office setting.
2. Tailored Strategies for Real-Life Situations
Every home has its own routines, layout, and family dynamics. A home-based consultation allows the consultant to recommend strategies that fit naturally into your existing environment, making them easier to implement and sustain.
3. Immediate Practical Guidance
During a home visit, the consultant can demonstrate techniques and support parents in real time. This might include guidance around routines, transitions, behaviour management, or communication strategies.
4. Identifying Environmental Factors
Sometimes small changes in the home environment—such as adjusting routines, modifying spaces, or introducing visual supports—can make a big difference. An experienced consultant can spot these opportunities quickly.
5. Building Parent Confidence
Many parents benefit from reassurance that they are on the right track. A supportive observation provides constructive feedback, helping parents feel more confident in their approach.
6. Collaborative Problem Solving
Home visits create an opportunity for open discussion about specific challenges. Together, parents and the consultant can explore practical solutions that respect the family’s values, routines, and parenting style.
7. Sustainable Long-Term Improvements
Because recommendations are developed within the context of the family’s daily life, they are more likely to be realistic, sustainable, and effective over time.
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What the Assessment May Include
Initial Consultation
An in-depth conversation to understand your family’s concerns, priorities, and goals. This allows space to explore current challenges, family dynamics, parenting approaches, and the wider context of your child’s life.
Home Observation (where appropriate)
Observing everyday interactions within the home environment often reveals patterns that may not appear in other settings. This might include routines, transitions, communication styles, and responses to challenging situations.
Understanding the Family Dynamic
The assessment considers the role of each family member, how expectations are communicated, and how family routines influence behaviour and wellbeing. Siblings, parental roles, and household structures are all taken into account.
Identifying Strengths as Well as Challenges
Alongside areas that may require change, the assessment highlights the existing strengths within the family. These are often the most powerful foundations for meaningful progress.
Environmental and Routine Review
Practical elements of the home environment and daily structure are considered. Small adjustments to routines, spaces, or expectations can sometimes lead to significant improvements.
A Bespoke and Flexible Process
No two families are the same. Each assessment is designed around your particular circumstances, priorities, and family structure. The process is flexible, responsive, and tailored, ensuring recommendations are realistic and suited to everyday family life.
A Clear Report and Roadmap
Following the assessment, you will receive a comprehensive written report that brings together key observations and insights. This document provides:
A clear summary of family dynamics and patterns identified
Practical recommendations tailored to your household
Priority areas for change
A structured roadmap for moving forward
Options for Ongoing Guidance
Families vary in the level of input they would like after the assessment. The report outlines different pathways moving forward, which may include:
Short-term or intermediate consultation sessions to help implement changes
Longer-term involvement for families navigating more complex challenges
Periodic reviews to refine strategies as circumstances evolve.
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Rest, Reassurance and Expert Guidance in Your Own Home
Welcoming a new baby is joyful, but it can also be exhausting and overwhelming. Having a qualified maternity practitioner come to your home offers parents the opportunity to rest, gain confidence, and receive expert guidance tailored to their baby and family.
Whether you are seeking a full night of uninterrupted sleep, reassurance about your baby’s development, or advice on establishing gentle routines, in-home maternity care brings professional expertise directly to your doorstep.
A Restful Night for Parents
Sleep deprivation is one of the biggest challenges in the early months of parenthood. A maternity practitioner can care for your baby overnight, allowing you to enjoy a deep, restorative night’s sleep knowing your baby is in experienced hands.
Your baby’s needs are attended to throughout the night—feeding, settling, nappy changes, and comfort—while you wake feeling refreshed and better able to enjoy the day ahead.
Expert Guidance When You Need It Most
Alongside practical care, parents often appreciate the chance to ask questions and gain clarity about their baby’s development. Time spent with a maternity practitioner can include guidance around:
Newborn sleep patterns and gentle routines
Feeding guidance and cues
Settling and soothing techniques
Understanding developmental stages
Creating calm and predictable daily rhythms
Adjusting to life with a new baby
Advice is always personalised to your baby, your home, and your parenting style, making it far more practical than general advice found online or in books.
Care Within Your Home Environment
Because the practitioner works within your home, any guidance offered reflects the real rhythms and routines of your family life. This allows suggestions and strategies to fit naturally into your daily routine.
Parents often find that even small adjustments—introduced with the right knowledge and reassurance—can make a significant difference to sleep, feeding, and overall household calm.
Reassurance for New Parents
The early weeks with a baby can bring many questions. Having a calm, knowledgeable professional present provides reassurance and confidence during a time when parents are often navigating many new experiences.
Flexible, Family-Centred Care
Services can be arranged according to your family’s needs. Some parents choose occasional overnight care for rest, while others value regular visits that combine baby care with guidance around routines and development.
Every family is different, and the approach is always flexible, respectful, and centred around your preferences as parents.
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The Benefits of a Private Professional Governess
A private professional governess offers families a unique combination of educational expertise, structured guidance, and personalised attention within the home environment. Unlike traditional childcare, a governess focuses on a child’s development, learning, confidence, and independence, while working closely with parents to complement family values and educational goals.
Available by the hour or through reserved weekly blocks, this flexible arrangement allows families to access high-quality educational guidance in a way that fits naturally into their routines.
Personalised Learning in the Home
Every child learns differently. A private governess tailors activities and teaching approaches to match your child’s interests, abilities, and developmental stage. Whether reinforcing school learning, encouraging curiosity, or extending academic ability, sessions are designed specifically for your child.
Learning can take many forms—structured academic work, creative projects, conversation, reading, or practical life skills—making education both engaging and meaningful.
Consistency and Structure
Children often thrive with predictable rhythms and clear expectations. A governess can introduce gentle structure to after-school hours, weekends, or homeschool days, helping children balance learning, creativity, and relaxation.
Reserved weekly blocks create consistency and continuity, allowing the governess to build a meaningful understanding of the child’s progress over time.
Support for Academic Confidence
A professional governess can assist with homework, reinforce key academic skills, and nurture confidence in subjects that may feel challenging. By working at the child’s pace and adapting teaching methods, learning becomes less stressful and more rewarding.
This individual attention often allows children to develop independence, resilience, and a love of learning.
Enriching the Child’s Wider Development
Beyond academic work, a governess can nurture broader developmental areas such as:
Organisation and study habits
Communication and conversation skills
Curiosity and critical thinking
Manners and social awareness
Creative expression and cultural learning
This holistic approach encourages children to develop not only academically, but personally and socially.
Flexible and Family-Focused
Families can arrange sessions by the hour for targeted learning or reserve regular weekly blocks to provide ongoing continuity and progress. This flexibility allows the service to adapt as family needs evolve—during busy school periods, examination preparation, or stages of developmental change.
A Trusted Educational Presence
Over time, a professional governess becomes a consistent and trusted figure in a child’s life—someone who understands their strengths, challenges, and interests, and who helps guide their development with care, professionalism, and insight.
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Parent-Away Care
A Weekend (or longer) with a highly experienced and qualified professional for your children, while you’re away.
When life takes you out of town, Parent-Away Care ensures your children aren’t simply being watched — they’re being nurtured, inspired, and enriched.
Access the luxury of highly trained governess care.
While you travel, your child is entrusted to a carefully selected, professionally trained governess—experienced in child development, education, and refined caregiving. Each governess provides a warm, structured, and enriching environment tailored to your child’s age, personality, and interests.
Rather than idle time or screens, your child’s days are thoughtfully curated to inspire curiosity, creativity, and confidence. Every activity is intentional, balancing learning with joy in a way that feels natural and engaging.
Your child might spend the weekend:
Exploring hands-on science experiments or creative projects
Visiting museums, parks, or cultural spaces
Enjoying storytelling, music, and imaginative play
Practicing life skills, independence, and confidence
Engaging in guided learning that sparks curiosity
Under the attentive care of a trained governess, every moment is designed to feel like an adventure—not supervision.
Parents travel with complete peace of mind, knowing their child is not only safe and well cared for, but is also benefiting from a nurturing, elevated standard of care rooted in expertise and intention.
Parent-Away Care transforms time apart into meaningful growth.
Because when you return home, your child won’t just say, “I missed you.”
They’ll also say,
“Guess what we did this weekend!” ✨
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When an unexpected situation arises—such as a sudden illness, a parent needing to be away, or another unforeseen circumstance—families may need immediate, short-term support at home. Urgent care services are designed to respond quickly, helping ensure that children continue to feel safe, supported, and cared for during a temporary disruption.
Urgent care typically begins with a rapid consultation to understand the family’s situation, the child’s needs, and the type of support required. This may include behavioural support, supervision, assistance with daily routines, or helping a child manage anxiety or changes in routine while a parent or caregiver is unavailable.
Depending on the circumstances, support can be provided in the home for a limited period—such as a few hours, overnight, or several days—until the family is able to resume normal routines or longer-term arrangements are made. The goal is to provide calm, reliable assistance that maintains stability for the child and reduces stress for the family during a difficult moment.
Urgent care services also prioritise communication with parents, guardians, and any relevant professionals so that the child’s usual supports—such as school, therapy, or existing care plans—remain consistent wherever possible.
By offering responsive, practical help when families need it most, urgent care can bridge short gaps in caregiving and ensure children continue to receive safe, compassionate support at home.
Community Guidance
Parenting Seminars
Attend seminars presented by Jennifer and a variety of leading experts to learn more about today’s greatest parenting challenges.
Academic Support & Study Skills
Resilience
Emotional Regulation
Parent Health & Wellbeing
Executive Function Home Based Skills
ADHD
Autism
Learning Differences
Screen Management
Schooling Options
Parenting Styles
Third Culture Children
Expat Parenting Challenges
Caregiver Courses
This bespoke training programme is designed for helpers and caregivers working with children and families in Singapore. The course aims to build understanding, practical skills, and confidence when caring for children who may experience ADHD, autism, behavioural challenges, or other developmental differences.
Delivered in a calm, respectful learning environment, the programme combines knowledge, discussion, and practical strategies that can be applied in everyday caregiving situations. Alongside child-focused learning, the course also encourages healthy communication, emotional awareness, and personal wellbeing, recognising the important role caregivers play within the household.
The training is structured over five days, allowing time to explore each topic thoughtfully and to practise new approaches.
Appropriate Expectations
Respectful Language
Positive Discipline
Routines
Healthy Habits
Independence Skills
Communication
Neurodiversity
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Who is Jennifer Costigan?
With more than 26 years of experience working closely with families around the world, Jennifer is a family systems consultant who helps parents navigate the complexities of raising children in today’s fast-changing world.
Her work focuses on supporting families whose children are experiencing behavioural, emotional or developmental challenges, helping parents create home environments where children can thrive socially, emotionally and academically.
Jennifer’s career has taken her inside family homes across multiple countries and cultures. Beginning as a trained maternity nurse, nanny and governess, she developed a deep, practical understanding of family life and child development from the earliest years through adolescence. This unusually hands-on background, combined with a master’s degree and decades of professional experience, gives her a rare ability to understand the real dynamics of daily family life and the pressures parents face.
Now based in Singapore for over a decade, Jennifer works with both local and internationally mobile families, many of whom are navigating complex developmental profiles, behavioural challenges, or the demands of highly competitive school environments.
A central part of Jennifer’s work involves helping families bridge the gap between professional recommendations and everyday life. She frequently collaborates with psychologists, occupational therapists, speech and language therapists, doctors and school teams, supporting parents in translating therapeutic strategies into routines and communication patterns that work within the home.
Jennifer has particular experience supporting children who are neurodivergent, including those with ADHD, autism and twice-exceptional learning profiles, as well as families navigating emotional regulation challenges, school transitions and major family changes.
Her approach is holistic and practical. She works with parents to understand the full system around their child, often beginning with the foundations of family life—sleep, nutrition, routines and communication—before helping parents build strategies that support both the child’s development and the wellbeing of the whole family.
Jennifer is known for her calm, thoughtful approach and her ability to bring clarity to complex situations. By helping parents step back, understand their child’s needs and implement realistic strategies at home, she supports families in creating lasting, positive change.
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Useful Definitions
A Governess focuses on academic instruction, social, emotional and physical development, and the teaching of manners and etiquette. They provide enriched experiences and learning opportunities through play, practical activities and tailored outings.
Parent Away Care (Proxy-Parenting) is when a professional caregiver takes on a parent's duties while the actual parents are away, ensuring children's needs are met through comprehensive, 24-hour care.
A Maternity Nurse provides direct care for a newborn and support for new parents after they leave the hospital, offering guidance on feeding (breast or bottle), establishing routines, changing and bathing the baby, laundry and sterilising bottles. They are experienced professionals hired to support families during the physically and mentally demanding postpartum period, with the goal of teaching parents how to care for their baby and boosting their confidence.

